In part two of this series, the New York divorce mediation attorneys at YS Mediation Center offer a tip for settling a divorce through mediation without unnecessary added pressure. Compromise is key when reaching an amicable agreement. Tip #2: Avoid Ultimatums and Deadlines

Every divorce case is unique and can involve issues that others may not some of which may be non-negotiable. When a situation becomes heated, avoid using ultimatums or deadlines, as doing so essentially stops the negotiating process and becomes detrimental to both parties.

It is more effective to use a method that is more likely to elicit a positive response, leading to discussions settlement and compromise: Instead of giving a timeframe when a settlement proposal MUST be accepted or risk withdrawal, it is a better method to ask for reasons why the other party disagrees and suggestions for alternatives.

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